This is a conversation I had with one of my friends this morning. I have left the content untouched except for a few typographical errors. The names have also been censored in order to keep the discussion I intend to provoke sincere and, as far as possible, objective.
There is a difference of opinion slowly but surely materializing here in Colombo. I see it as the critical divide between ‘pseudo-liberals’ and the ‘newly radicalized’. The classification is not necessarily accurate, but rather a reflection of how each side sees the other. Another common opinion is that the former are ‘fashionable liberals – turned fascist’ and the latter are ‘liberals by conviction – turned frustrated’. You judge for yourselves.
Friend: ironically and worryingly the Peace seems to be polarizing the moderate machan
**** (a mutual friend) is a stubborn fuck sometimes
Me: ado no machang….he has a point
Friend: I am not saying he doesn’t have a point machan
Me: the bugger has always been stubborn no surprises there
Friend: he has a very valid point….but nevertheless you have to give to get no?
Me: tell that to an educated Tamil…the buggers don’t buy any of this…frankly I don’t either…
I hope though and try my best not to be cynical
Friend: that’s purely an issue of perception though and of trust….not factual
Me: may be
Friend: the govt I don’t think has put too many feet wrong in their post war messages
Me: but facts and figures are useless without trust
Friend: and I think the expectations of **** et al are unrealistic
EXACTLY
EXACTLY
and trust can only be mutual no machan…..hence my call or elimination of distrust
it has to be forced until circumstances eliminate it entirely over time
Me: ummm…but isn’t that something the govt has to earn?
Friend: yes….granted
but it is also the something the Tamil people have to learn because **** (another mutual friend) is admitting that Uncle P and the LTTE represented him
the Tamil people themselves need to speak out against that equation of the two
Me: it’s kind of true, prabha represented an aspect of the Tamil struggle. No one can deny that
Friend: of course he did machan – and a none military version of that struggle MUST continue but if you are associated by omission with an organization like that you have to bare the consequences machan
Me: if the object is self determination…and your opponents are bigoted …then any Tamil will see the use in having a militant approach
Friend: I am only saying that the Sinhalese aren’t the only people who are bigoted….the Tamils are too
they want to have their cake and eat it machan which is unrealistic and selfish
Me: well…I think the fear Tamils have now that they will not be taken seriously is legitimate
there is no incentive to
Friend: disagree….what has the GOSL done to affirm that fear since the war ended
not a bloody thing
Me: as long as the LTTE was there…there was hope of a little ‘give and take’ with the right Sinhalese govt
now there is NO INCENTIVE
ummm
13th amendment minus that is what is being discussed now
Friend: the fear stems from the paranoia…the incentive machan is to avoid a repetition and I don’t think even the Sinhalaya modaya is going to accept that
Me: no police powers
Friend: the only reason the 13th amendment didn’t work is because the LTTE fucked it up
Me: something which is included in the 13th amendment is now on the verge of being taken out and 13th am was the minimum
so yes…I think paranoia or not…the govt has done plenty to display its intention to provide watered down solutions
Friend: my point is that if the police force is effective it doesn’t matter who runs it…if it’s ineffective then at least you have somewhere to go from there
I only want legitimate Tamil voices to say exactly what you told me right now
that 13th am is minimum and this is why we should have it
Me: and that can be said about every aspect of the 13th am
see machang???? see where this is heading?
you’re compromising
Friend: machan – all I’m saying is both sides have to compromise…if you can’t see that we are doomed
Me: but how can you expect the Tamils to go below what was promised in the 13th
I say the 13th is not enough to solve this…
and people are saying the 13th is too much
and Tamils should compromise on that as well
here’s the long and short of it
as I see it…
NO ONE considered this govt as being capable of solving this problem politically
they all backed it to finish the war
it did so
now it is INCONVENIENT for people to remind themselves that this govt cannot solve the political problem
so they start compromising…
forgetting…
it’s a little sad
Friend: political solution = compromise
I’ve dealt with every single ‘Tamil Question’ **** (1st mutual friend) brought up
Me: hmmm
13th is compromise to begin with
Friend: and short of demanding a de facto separate state he doesn’t put up a single cogent argument for wanting what he does
Me: compromise was possible when an extremist was in the game
no LTTE means no bargaining chips
no compromise
Friend: the threat of another LTTE is a bargaining chip machan
Me: solution = take what we give you, you fucking Tamil
oh god
Friend: that has never been said, nor has it been manifested machan
Me: the threat of another LTTE is why 300k are in internment
several thousands are in Boosa
Friend: I don’t trust these buggers….the govt. but I am willing to give them a chance
Me: Tamil journalists are being tried for terrorism
Friend: it’s all I’m asking
Me: I don’t think you have a choice machang.
Friend: Tissa’s case is the most unfortunate fuck up of this war….but can you see how the GoSL needs to save face by trying him
once the publicity dies down he will be freed machan….he’s not dead
Me: oh yes I see the point in trying him
didn’t think saving face was a legitimate ground for trying someone
Friend: it’s not machan – but it’s politics not law
Me: which is why it is wrong and people shouldn’t make excuses for this govt
I just feel that this govt is going to get away with a lot of
shit because of the war victory
Friend: everything is politics machan – **** (known lawyer) won his cases in the SC cos of politics nothing else
Me: agreed
Friend: mate do you think I’m not shit scared now that the main opposition leader has been eliminated….we are on course for a dictatorship
Me: but that was a case of politics when it happened to be consistent with was is right
Friend: but unless we start talking…to each other and shit we are not going anywhere
Me: err yes
so then why support the govt?
Friend: we can’t take this govt on machan – we’ll just get killed
I AM NOT SUPPORTING THEM
Me: so then leave the country
you’re making excuses for them
Friend: that’s what you’re doing
Yes – I may be…because I realize how hard this problem is to solve even if you and I were running govt
Me: ? anyway…you’re right to be afraid of this govt
Friend: being idealistic is great….but we must temper our expectations with realism…it’s why the two words and statuses quo exist
Me: we all should be
yeah…but we shouldn’t expect Tamils to have to throw away their idealism because we want everyone to be realistic
it’s as if you’re saying…YOU LOST
SO BE REALISTIC ABOUT YOUR ASPIRATIONS
you’re right…it’s not realistic
Friend: I am only saying that approach to solving the problem is unrealistic and has been a proven failure adopt another method
Me: who can blame **** (1st Mutual Friend) for being cynical
you can’t expect him to roll over and play dead
I don’t see [him] taking up arms
Friend: I don’t….but I expect him to be more reasonable and not expect all of the fucking pie
Me: I only see the bugger demanding for a better solution than fucking 13th am MINUS
Friend: otherwise Eelam is also his aspiration and I will fight to the death any bugger who wants Eelam
Me: so the better approach you’re suggesting is that he changes his demands
Friend: no making a proper case for the demands rather than prejudice and paranoia
Me: ok
Friend: development needs to be immediate
who does it is a secondary issue and further development can be handled by the Tamils themselves in their areas
did you read the last three comments on that groundviews thread?
Me: you do realize that Eelam and 13th am are worlds apart
Friend: read it machan….with an open mind
me: if we are not willing to give 13th am
Friend: I do realize that….but **** (1st Mutual Friend) rhetoric doesn’t seem to be
Me: then people have a right to demand for the extreme…and if they had a bargaining chip…they would have got something in between
they don’t
so they’re fucked
Friend: they have a right to demand it machan….but they don’t have a right to receive it
Me: and so are we…because the problem will not be resolved
Friend: they’re not fucked machan
Me: I hope I hope
Friend: how can you possibly say they are fucked????? what’s so
fucked about it?
Me: ok…I just think we’ll have to wait and see
I say they are fucked because of the trends in the present discussion
how Pillayan can’t get a cent to work with
how emergency law continues to operate indefinitely
no attempt at a truth and reconciliation commission
I’m just not convinced
but I am hopeful
Friend: you have to give people a chance to convince you machan
Me: I realize that this govt doesn’t have any opposition to impede a solution
so I hope
I hope and wait
Friend: if a girl tells you she gives great head you can’t be cynical until you’ve gotten a blowjob
Me: and I fucking sympathize with those who are frustrated
Friend: machan I am frustrated too….but a thirty year wait and a few months is chalk and cheese
Me: if there is a legitimate concern that she will bite my cock off…I wont take the chance
Friend: suddenly the war is over and they want solutions yesterday….not correct no
Me: ok we’ll wait
Friend: that’s all
wait
Me: we have no right to tell Tamils to wait
but they’ll have to
such is life
Friend: of COURSE WE DO
Me: we don’t
Friend: we waited for thirty years…they can fucking well wait too
Me: but let’s agree that like it or not…we’ll all have to wait
Friend: yeeeers….so as long as we are agreed on that
Thank you for Reading
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